Wednesday, May 22, 2019

Congratulations my girl!

Dear Ginny,

You our middle child are a different child entirely.  You are compassionate, determined and joyful.  You have spunk that keeps us laughing.  I love your laugh and how you love to hang out with us.   As I anticipate you walking across that stage next weekend I am intrigued.  What intrigues me the most  about you is your strength.  I am not talking your physical strength but your ability to stand strong in your faith, your morals and your values.  Today as I was writing something down in my day-timer I noticed the scripture

SHE IS Strong PROVERBS 31:25

I looked up the verse and I immediately thought of you.

She is clothed with STRENGTH and DIGNITY SHE laughs without fear of the FUTURE 

Here we are, within 3 1/2  months you will have graduated, tried out for Edmonton Gold and we will have gone on a family trip to Alabama, a missions trip to N. Africa and we will have sent you off to college.  Somewhere in there you would have played some more rugby as well.  There are moments where we joke about me needing to breathe into a paper bag.  My heart does a squeezing thing on a regular basis lately.  What are you doing to me? :D

Putting my trust in God is something that I ultimately struggle with.  Yet I look at you and and you are are OVER THE MOON excited about all of it.  "This is the best time of my life."  Is something that you have said over and over again. It sure is baby girl. That is what I love about you.  You don't think about the "what if's".  You live in the moment, enjoying every second of life.  You aren't prideful, or in your face about any of it.  Your excitement radiates from you.  How you diligently pray for others quietly, without fear, shows me that you will make a wonderful friend, wife and mommy some day.  You are determined in all that you do yet not much can disappoint you when things don't work out the way they are planned.  You are everything a parent dreams of in their daughter.  

I know that soon I will have to let you go.  Soon is sooner than I anticipated.  God has such exciting plans for you though and I can't intervene in them only because I want you to stay little forever.  I am excited to see where this world will take you.  Always remember to stay true to yourself.  Believe that your heavenly Father is in control and he is ultimately your best friend.  You can turn to him for anything, at any moment.  Never forget that.  He may not always seem close but stay true to Him through the tough and the easy.

Wherever your journey in life may take you
I pray that you'll always be safe.
Enjoy the ride and never forget
your way back home.
I'm always here for you.
               
                                                                                                                                       love mom 





Here we go again.

It's nearly that time again.  Where does the time go?  It seems like just yesterday when our first born walked the stage and now we are nearing that time again.  You would think I would be a pro at this by now but the feeling is so different, yet so similar.  It's like I am going through this for the first time but I am also familiar of that "done" feeling.  We invested 12 years of waking up early, getting out the door on time, doing homework, packing lunches,  going on field trips, experiencing sadness, joy, and frustration, and in one brief moment it all comes to an end.  Now what?

For our firstborn in the last year we have watched him come out of his shell.  Things he struggled with are now a walk in the park.  Things we never thought he would accomplish ... HE has!  We are not entirely sure where his path may go but we are so proud of him for making the right choices.  He is cautious and questionable.  He is mature enough to see the concerns we have for his siblings and understand them. He has to test the waters before diving in. He is kind and considerate and oh so stubborn in his ways.  He brings a smile to our face with his wacky words and gestures.  I know that God has plans for him.  He just needs to see that for himself.  
                                                        *************************


Saturday, April 27, 2019

EASTER 2019 Uhlitz Family

FAMILY - This word takes on a whole other meaning when the two people that held it all together are no longer with us. I can't even express how much a day like this means to me. As a child I cherished Easter weekend. Being the youngest of five I LOVED our family gatherings, and everyone knew how much it meant to my mom to have her family in church and later crowded around multiple tables through out the kitchen. My parents would be so proud of this group of kids, young adults, parents raising their kids in todays world. My niece said to me today "aunty we almost didn't come today. The boys were horrible this morning." My response ... "So were mine. I almost left them at home as well." I am so glad that everyone who made it took the time out of their schedule to put a smile on my heart and my kids faces. Our three love spending time with their cousins and I love seeing the relationships that are being built, and the memories that are being planted. When I look at this group sitting on the rock, I will forever remember them scrabbling up there, eager to get a family picture. These are my nephews and nieces (plus my three). One day we will be able to add the other 10 that are missing. Our family is a little crazy, maybe even a little upside down but our family tree is growing and the roots are in heaven smiling from above.